Ice Breaker
The Big Question
- What are boundaries of gender relations? And how does Islam guide these boundaries?
- What qualities define a friend?
- Do you think deep connections or intimate moments are needed for a friendship (versus a relationship with an acquaintance)?
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- As most friendships do have deep connections, do you think that can be built between a boy and girl?
- Why/why not?
- Do you think feelings can be developed through these intimate moments?
- How would you feel if a sibling was sharing deep/sensitive/intimate details about their life with someone of the opposite gender?
- How would you feel if a sibling was texting a “guy/girl friend” at 2am? What about mom/dad? Would you be ok with that? Why/why not?
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- Go To: https://sunnah.com/mishkat:3118
- What does it mean that the shaytan is the third?
- Is that foreshadowing anything?
- What do you think about “cyber khulwa خلوة”?
- DMing on Instagram? Texting? Snapchatting?
- Avoiding khulwa is one way Allah is protecting us from crossing the boundary. What are other things He gave us that help us stay protected?
- Counselors: guide them to the following- (1) Lowering of the gaze (2) hijab
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